Family Responsibility Over Pets: 5 Lessons to Learn with Your Kids

There’s nothing quite like welcoming a pet into the family for the first time—and children may look forward to the joy and companionship a pet like a dog can bring into their lives. Beyond that, they also stand to learn many valuable lessons from the responsibility of caring for a pet and attending to the latter’s everyday needs.

If you’re a parent, consider pet ownership as a great opportunity for teaching your kids key life skills like empathy, consistency, and cooperation.  You can put these skills into practice yourself. After all, most pet owners would agree than taking care of pets make us better humans.

Here are five important lessons about responsible, compassionate pet ownership that you can learn together as a family:

1) Empathy and Compassion for Animals

One of the most important lessons children will learn from taking care of an animal is empathy. More than just their physical requirements, pets—especially dogs—have emotional needs that children can relate to.

Kids can learn compassion through the tasks of feeding, grooming, and comforting a dog, for example. This further translates to learning how to be considerate of the feelings of other living beings. After spending some time with their pet dog, your children may get a good sense for when the former is feeling unwell or scared and can thus respond with comfort and reassurance. They may also learn the concept of boundaries and when their pet needs for their boundaries to be respected.

Later on, as children develop a bond with their pet, they’ll begin to show more compassion not just to the pet itself but also to other animals and people around them. This helps cultivate a lifelong respect and empathy for all living creatures—two values that you should also uphold as a parent.

2) Understanding Routine and Consistency

It’s also easy to involve even younger children when it comes to creating and following a schedule for caring for the family pet. Pets like dogs rely on regular feeding times, walks, playtime, and rest; when they’re aware of these regimens and have a hand in overseeing them, children can learn the importance of sticking to a schedule.

In addition, giving children the responsibility to feed a dog at specific times each day or walk the dog after school will teach the former the value of time management and the discipline required to maintain routines. This is an essential skill in other areas of life as well, such as in managing schoolwork and chores. Your role as the parent is to remember the routines your family has set around your pet, and to encourage your kids’ budding sense of discipline.

3) Developing Responsibility Through Daily Care

Owning a pet is a commitment that involves many obligations that must fit within your family lifestyle.  Hence, caring for one brings plenty of opportunities for teaching kids the most hands-on lessons for practicing responsibility. From feeding a dog to cleaning up after it, there are many daily tasks that children can help with or take on entirely as they grow older. Soon they’ll develop a sense of accountability and, seeing that their efforts directly contribute to their family pet’s happiness and health, they’ll be able to feel a sense of accomplishment and pride.

Depending on the child’s age, they might start with simple tasks like filling the dog’s water bowl or brushing its coat. Meanwhile, older children can handle more complex tasks such as taking the dog for walks or picking up and disposing of waste. As the designated adult, make sure to take safety and capability into account when assigning tasks.

Are You Ready for Your New Pet’s Arrival?

If this is the first time your children are old enough to help caring for a pet, or you are planning to receive a new pet into your home, you can involve them in preparation plans.  Here are few things you need to ensure your pet is well cared for.  Lists will vary depending on your pet.  Here is a typical list for a dog.

• Dog Food: Consult the breeder, shelter, or vet for diet recommendations.

• Treats: Use small, soft treats for training rewards.

• Food and Water Bowls: Choose durable and easy to clean options, such as wholesale stainless steel dog bowls.

• Collar and ID Tags: Include the dog’s name and your contact info.

• Leash: Get a sturdy leash suitable for your dog’s size.

• Toys: Provide chew toys, interactive toys, and plushies to keep your dog entertained and mentally stimulated.

• Crate or Bed: A safe, cozy spot for your dog to sleep and relax. Consider a car harness to keep your dog safe while traveling.

• Brush or Comb: Choose one suited to your dog’s coat type.  Additional grooming supplies will be needed if you are not planning to hire a groomer on a regular basis.

• Toothbrush and Toothpaste: Dental hygiene is important for long-term health.

• Microchip or GPS Tracker: Consider security one of these methods to find in case your dog gets lost.

4) Promoting Teamwork and Cooperation

As with most responsibilities in a household, caring for a pet is a job that is best done with the help of the entire family. Working together to take care of a pet will teach kids the importance of teamwork, and also help parents find ways to practice that same teamwork creatively and consistently.

Tasks can be delegated among different family members when caring for a puppy, for example: one member can be responsible for feeding the puppy, while another might take the puppy out for walks. This division of labor will also help children understand how to cooperate with their family members and share responsibilities for a common goal.

5) Instilling Problem-Solving and Patience

Owning a pet will always come with its own unique challenges, and these require problem-solving skills. Parents can get children involved step by step when addressing behavioral issues, like teaching a dog to stop chewing on furniture. Everyone in the family can take this initiative to recognize particular challenges and help formulate solutions.

Living with a pet and training it also builds patience. Teaching a dog new tricks or waiting for it to respond to training commands can sometimes be frustrating, and it would be good for a child to experience this so that they can better learn how to deal with inconveniences and setbacks. This level of patience will come in handy when things don’t go their way in other areas of life, from school to relationships to future careers. And you may think that these are lessons you’ve already learned as an adult, but you’ll be surprised how many opportunities you’ll get to practice patience and problem-solving with both your kids and your family pet.

For the many essential life skills and lessons that come with responsible pet ownership alone, it’s worth welcoming a new pet into the household. Your life with your pet may be one of the best ways to help your kids grow into the respectful, compassionate, and disciplined adults you hope they’ll be. But only make the decision to introduce a pet into your home if you know everyone’s ready and if your hearts are fully into it—and if you’re willing to learn these lessons together, both the easy and the hard way, time and time again.