How to Prepare Your Child for College Application Season

College applications are a stressful undertaking for most students. While school counselors will provide your child with the information they need to fill them out, support at home is just as important for success. As a parent, you can help guide your child through the process and ensure it goes smoothly in many ways.

Here are some strategies you can use as your child starts the college application process.

1. Vocalize Their Potential

Young people feel a lot of pressure when it’s time to apply to college. They worry about what might happen if every application gets rejected. How will that affect their future, and will it fracture your relationship? After all, the number of college applications is up by 21% compared to the 2019-2020 school year.

Remember to vocalize your teen’s potential by encouraging them throughout the process. Remind them how smart and capable they are. No matter what colleges they get into or how many rejection letters they receive, their future is bright. You’ll take some of their stress away by having their back.

2. Gather Necessary Paperwork

Every applicant must submit specific information beyond their high school and grade point average (GPA). Locate your teen’s social security number and your own. You’ll have to enter your information and work-related data if your family applies for financial aid. If you know where you’re keeping both identification cards, you’ll have an easier time dealing with paperwork.

3. List Preferred Colleges and Universities

There are so many colleges and universities in America to consider. That number skyrockets if your high school senior is also considering studying abroad. Encourage them to make a list of every school that catches their eye. Dream big — this step is just about collecting data.

Research each school afterward to narrow that list down. If your teen wants to go to Stanford, 12 students with 4.0 GPAs apply for every one spot available to rising freshmen. That’s a highly competitive application field. They may need to work with their school counselor to get their grades up if they have their heart set on a competitive school.

4. Look Into Standardized Testing

SAT and ACT test scores aren’t required by every school anymore, but they may be necessary for your high school senior’s preferred universities. Look up what tests they need and schedule them together.

Contact the high school counselor if you need help. They’ll connect you with local testing sites and dates, which happen throughout the year.

5. Schedule Applications Alongside Rest Days

Every application requires lots of specific personal information, plus an essay or two. It could take hours to finish a single form. Give your teenager some rest by scheduling time for only one or two applications per week. If they get started early in the fall semester, they’ll have plenty of time to submit multiple college applications before early fall deadlines and standard spring deadlines arrive.

6. Get Advice Regarding Financial Aid

School guidance counselors have financial aid resources available for families of high school seniors. Call or email your teenager’s school if you need assistance locating things like the FAFSA website, scholarships and grants.

They might also qualify for federal, state and private organizations’ programs that give rising freshmen college funding. Sports-related and hobby-related financial aid exist as well.

Look into every possibility to get the most support. Given how 87% of students get financial aid for college, there are many opportunities to help everyone who needs tuition and housing assistance.

7. Avoid Writing Things for Them

It’s tempting to write your teenager’s college entrance essays — especially if the deadlines are right around the corner — but let them handle this step. They’ll have to write plenty more essays in the coming years, no matter their degree.

This is their first baby step in becoming more confident in their writing skills. It’s also crucial that admissions board members get to know your teenager as an individual to know if they’d be a good match for the university.

8. Give Them Space to Take Responsibility

The stakes are high when college application season begins. Parents and high school seniors feel more stressed than ever. Although you might want to handle everything from finding information about SAT dates and researching universities, let your teenager take on most of the responsibility. Encourage them to also research college life so the can make informed decisions.

You’ll better prepare them for handling their college responsibilities and demonstrate how much you trust them with the process. If they know you believe in them, they’ll feel a bit less anxious about taking this next big step in their lives.

Get Ready for College Application Season

It’s never too early to start preparing your child for college application season. Talk about where they want to go and how much you love them. If they feel supported while you take each step toward graduation, you’ll both have a more pleasant experience.

Author bio:  Cora Gold is the Editor-in-Chief of women’s lifestyle magazine, Revivalist. She strives to live a happy and healthy life with her family by her side.
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