Category: Online Safety for Kids

Today, access to the internet is pervasive. And while the internet has many benefits, it also carries some risks. As parents, we need to talk to our kids about how to navigate the digital world safely and responsibly.  This is not a one-time discussion. It’s ongoing because the internet is always changing and evolving.

Here’s how you can start the conversation and build a safe online environment for your family. 

1. Start early

Today, exposure to the internet begins at a young age. Yet 18% of teens say they haven’t talked with anybody about what good online behavior looks like. Don’t wait to start talking to your kids about proper internet behavior and setting appropriate boundaries.

For younger children, this might be as simple as setting time limits on screen use, disciplining yourself not to use technology as a pacifier to calm rowdy behavior, and encouraging offline play and interactions.

As your kids get older, budget more screen time paired with more responsibility and accountability. Eventually, you can also start introducing more mature topics of conversation, such as internet safety, cyberbullying, and privacy.

By opening the lines of communication early, you can set clear expectations from the start and help guide your kids along the way.     

2. Do your homework

Before you sit down with your child, brush up on the latest internet trends and social apps. If your kid uses social media, what channels are they active on?

Some of the most popular platforms for today’s teens and tweens include:

• Instagram
• Snapchat
• Kik Messenger
• Tumblr 
• Tik Tok
• Whatsapp
• Twitch
• Roblox
• Discord

Despite their popularity, these apps carry risks—particularly for budding teens and young adults who are still learning how to navigate the internet and digital relationships.

In order to give your child the best guidance, you need to understand what platforms they are using and how those apps work—including their privacy settings, age requirements, and the kind of information that is shared. Armed with that knowledge, you can set appropriate boundaries and educate your child on the risks and best practices for online safety. 

3. Explain the risks

Once you understand how your kids engage online, you can better address the specific risks involved.

Talk to your kids about these risks (as developmentally appropriate). By outlining the dangers and consequences of certain behaviors, you can help your children understand not only what they should do, but why.

As you discuss internet safety, consider teaching your children about the following:

• Privacy issues: Oversharing personal information or details could put you at risk for identity theft or embarrassment. 

• Harassment or bullying: Many apps and social platforms make it easy for kids and adults alike to participate in bullying behavior—whether that’s spreading gossip, sharing others’ private content (like sensitive photos), or writing hurtful comments. 

• Reputation management: What happens on the internet doesn’t just go away. Things that happened online years ago could come up again later in life, such as during college applications or job interviews.  

Explain that because of these risks, you will be setting certain rules and guidelines for how the family uses the internet. 

4. Set expectations 

As with other areas of parenting, internet use in your household should have clear guidelines based on your family values and each kid’s maturity level. Setting limits isn’t always easy—especially if you are parenting a teenager—but it is important to be open and honest about what you expect of them and how they will be held accountable.

The exact limits you set will depend on your child’s age and maturity. Keep in mind that you will likely need to revisit your “house rules” with the family periodically as your children grow and they adopt new technology (e.g., upgrading to a smartphone).

If parents are living apart and children are living in two different households, make sure both of you are on the same page setting consistent ground rules in each home.

In addition to time limits, consider outlining basic dos and don’ts of online behavior. These might include:

• Never share passwords, addresses, or other private information over the internet.
• Don’t illegally download content.
• Don’t download unknown files from the internet (or ask an adult to check potential downloads).  
• Avoid accepting friend requests or messages from strangers.
• Never set up a meeting with someone you’ve only talked to online.
• Be respectful; remember that online anonymity isn’t an excuse for bullying or other meanspirited behavior.
• Don’t share friends’ information or content without permission. 
• Always sign out of accounts when using public computers. 

Sit down with your children and explain your expectations and map these guidelines in a formal family media use plan.

Teaching your kids about internet safety and good habits online takes time and patience. It is not a one-off event but an ongoing conversation. As you stay involved in their lives—both online and offline—you will be able to guide them more effectively and help them develop into successful digital citizens.  

Although video games have been around for decades, the landscape has dramatically changed from when we played Super Mario Brothers in the basement.  Today, video games are not only played on gaming consoles, but they are played on PCs, laptops, touchscreen tablets, and mobile devices.

With more devices and games to choose from than ever before, the global video game market has exploded to an estimated $217.06 billion in 2022. So, not only is gaming access and popularity increasing, but so is connectivity. Most video games now require an internet connection, further exposing children to some of the dangers of gaming, such as cyberbullying and predatory in-app purchases.

But it’s not simply these types of threats that parents should be concerned about; parents should also be worried about how spending too much time playing video games can affect a child’s physical and mental health, social behavior, and cognitive development. There is a distinct line between healthy and unhealthy gaming.

As parents, let’s take a closer look at the hidden dangers of video games, including the consequences of excessive consumption, and offer some healthy alternatives that can entertain while better fostering your child’s development.

Potential Threats Commonly Found in Kid-friendly Games and Apps

There are many threats found in kid-friendly games and apps that are hard to prevent your child from being exposed to. To make matters even worse, all of this is pretty much impossible to avoid nowadays.

However, the best thing you can do is educate yourself and your child about the dangers and provide a safe space for them to come to you and talk to you about anything. Open communication is critical.

At the same time, you should also know every game and app that your child uses and explore if they have parental controls that you can use.

For example, Roblox, one of the most popular games for children worldwide, has a feature where parents can limit and monitor who their child is playing and communicating with on the platform and several online privacy settings you can enable.

Many games and apps have similar features for parents, so be sure to conduct research before allowing your child to play a new game. Don’t be afraid to write an email to the developers themselves, either!

So, without further ado, let’s break down some of the most common threats children face when using online games and apps.

Cyberbullying/Online Predators

Cyberbullies and online predators are a constant threat that not only come from online gaming but also from social media. Although trying to keep your children safe from cyberbullying and online predators is a monumental task, you should know the red flags that indicate your child is being bullied online.

From mood swings and bouts of depression and anxiety to loss of sleep, lack of appetite, and withdrawal from family and friends, many emotional symptoms and behavioral changes could be clues that your child is being bullied.

When it comes to online predators, you must have consistent conversations with your children about not sharing personal information with strangers online and the dangers of “meeting up” with someone you only met through an online game or social media. Sometimes, people may not be who they say they are; instead, they have harmful intentions.

Hidden Fees/In-app Purchases

Hidden fees and in-app microtransactions are some of the biggest scams to hit video games and apps. From paying for virtual currencies, weaponry, and special abilities to eliminating in-game advertisements, video games have become incredibly creative about how they trick children into spending money.

Never attach a credit card to your child’s gaming profile, and if your child is using your smartphone or tablet to play games and use apps through Apple or Google Play, make sure you password-protect all purchases and switch off “in-app updates.”

If you want to educate your child about responsible spending, you can create an online-only debit card and put a part of their allowance in it, just to see how it feels spending their own money.

Malware

Sometimes, cybercriminals can modify popular and legitimate apps with malware and upload them to Google Play or Apple without being detected. These apps then install Trojans, adware, and spyware on your devices without you knowing.

Ensure you approve all of the games and apps your child would like to download before they do. Password-protect downloads if you have to. Also, pay attention to recent reviews and news stories about recently discovered breaches, and teach your child how to recognize scams and illegitimate apps. It’s an excuse for you to up your tech knowledge, too!

Links to external malicious sites

Another major threat from online games and apps, especially those that involve multi-player gameplay, is messages containing links to external malicious sites that can download malware and other harmful files.

The best way to prevent this is to teach your kids about internet safety from an early age, including the importance of never clicking on suspicious links and other common-sense safety rules about being online.

Adverse effects of excessive gaming and screen time

Again, there is a significant difference between healthy and unhealthy gaming. Extreme gaming for a child could be considered any amount that disrupts their normal daily functioning.

For instance, the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP), recommends no more than 2-5 hours of screen time, with only 1 hour being devoted to non-educational activities.

Also, excessive gaming and screen time have been linked to these adverse side effects.

• Physical: obesity, insomnia, neck and back problems, and eye strain.
• Mental: impulsive actions, behavioral problems, prone to violence, anxiety, and depression.
• Emotional: mood swings, withdrawal from friends, family, and school, and stunted emotional growth

Again, it is impossible to eliminate all screen time. Between school work and entertainment, your child will be in front of a screen, using apps and playing games almost daily.

Just be mindful of how much time they spend in front of a screen and try to facilitate and encourage healthy alternatives that your child can enjoy.

Healthy Alternatives to Video Games and Screen Time

While the digital realm is often filled with addictive and predatory content, the real world offers a plethora of educational and safe alternatives. Engaging in physical, creative endeavors enhances a child’s motor skills and nurtures their imaginative capabilities.

Here are some everyday physical and creative activities outside the digital realm that can help your child’s mental, physical, emotional, and social development.

Art Projects

Suitable art activities can significantly contribute to a child’s development by allowing them to express themselves in a wholesome and unrestrictive environment. Parents may find that by swapping screen time with time spent on crafting, drawing, or painting; children are more likely to develop essential skills such as problem-solving, creativity, and even social abilities when working on group art projects.

Moreover, the absence of hidden digital threats ensures a safer, enriching experience. By replacing a portion of digital playtime with artistic pursuits, parents can provide a balanced, risk-free entertainment diet for their young ones.

Sports

There have been many studies about the benefits of sports for children. Sports offer a healthy alternative to screen time that can help build their coordination and balance as well as their bones, muscles, and ligaments. Kids who play sports also reduce their risk of obesity and are more likely to learn healthy physical habits that they carry into adulthood. Other benefits include improved sleep, greater concentration, and increased social skills.

Educational Travel/Field Trips

Educational travel and field trips are another great source of entertainment that keeps kids learning. Museums, art galleries, national parks, monuments, historical sites, and the theater entertain a child’s imagination and curiosity while contributing to healthy development.

The Bottom Line

The bottom line is online games and apps are fun to play and a good source of entertainment. We are not trying to say that all online gaming is inherently evil and detrimental to children; we are saying that it is essential that you and your child are aware of all the potential risks, and that you know how to mitigate them.

At the same time, it is not just cybersecurity and social threats that should concern every parent; it’s online safety as a whole we need to focus on. That is why, besides educating children about online threats, we also need to limit the time they spend in front of a screen and provide them with healthy alternatives that entertain and foster healthy and enriching development.

About the Author:
Ryan Harris is a copywriter focused on eLearning and the digital transitions going on in the education realm. Before turning to writing full time, Ryan worked for five years as a teacher in Tulsa and then spent six years overseeing product development at many successful Edtech companies, including 2U, EPAM, and NovoEd.

As parents, you may constantly remind your children to be careful online. However, the digital world is ever-changing, so you may not be aware of all the risks. Parents are often guilty of practicing unsafe online habits without realizing it. Here are five ways you might unknowingly risk your child’s online safety.

1.  Not Knowing Their Favorite Websites

There are myriad social media and gaming websites children love to go on. Unfortunately, unsavory individuals will often target the kids on these sites. A recent study found 16% of minors faced sexual abuse on websites. One measure to help prevent this is knowing where your child goes on the internet.

Learn where they go and keep up with any information about the site. Learn whether or not it’s intended for kids, or has children and adults. Know what the website lets them do — chat, post pictures or share videos — and discuss with your child what is and isn’t appropriate for those posts. Consider creating a profile to explore the website or ask your child for their account information so you can take a look if you suspect something is happening.

2.  Not Educating Them on the Risks

You might want to protect your child’s innocence, but it is vital to be honest about the types of threats they could face online. Your child should understand people could cyberbully them, post inappropriate things or try to lure them into a dangerous real-world situation. They probably shouldn’t be on their devices unsupervised if they cannot.

Thanks to people online, knowledge is power and your child is more likely to take your warnings seriously if they learn about actual cases where kids were hurt. Go over them in an age-appropriate manner and discuss what precautions they can take to avoid experiencing the same thing.

3.  Posting Their Information

Even if your children don’t have their own social media accounts, they may still have a digital footprint. A digital footprint encompasses all of the information about a person that can be found online. So how can a child have a digital footprint if they haven’t posted anything? From their parents.

The internet can seem like a great way to share your child’s accomplishments with friends and family, but what you put online is there forever. Many adults do not realize that once you post something online, no matter how private you think your account is, it’s no longer in your control.

When was the last time you checked your privacy settings? How many “friends” or followers do you have on social media? Many things could impact your child’s online reputation. Something as simple as a back-to-school photo or their first name could be a tool for someone to track them.

Avoid posting your children’s full names, personal information and locations. Remember that any photos you upload will be part of their digital footprint forever. From future employers to online predators, anyone could have access to that information.

4.  Not Updating Your Devices

All devices have bugs or outdated software occasionally. That’s why it’s necessary to let your computer, tablet and other electronics update when you get the alert to do it. Otherwise, you leave yourself and your child vulnerable to potential hackers.

It doesn’t just apply to devices they can use to get online but machines that use the internet as a tool. For example, some smart security cameras can get hacked and predators can use them to talk to or spy on your children. Keeping everything up to date can help prevent those instances.

5.  Having Insecure Passwords

Your passwords are your primary defense against unauthorized people snooping through or using your account. It’s important to use passwords that are hard to crack. Doing so can prevent hackers from getting your kid’s info, and prevents your child from guessing the password and logging on without your knowledge.

Don’t put personal information in your passwords, such as your name, age or career. Also, avoid your child’s name or birthday, and your pet’s name. Anything someone could easily link to you isn’t a good idea for your password.

It’s tricky because you want a password you can remember. Consider choosing a random television character or your favorite food. Your password should have uppercase and lowercase letters, numbers, and special characters. Many websites now have automated password generators that combine random numbers, letters and symbols that you can write down in a safe place and save on your browser.

Keeping Your Child Safe Online

The internet is such a prominent part of daily life that it can be easy to forget the potential dangers. While it’s important to educate your children on the risks, you also need to educate yourself. You can keep your children safe online by improving your own digital habits.

Author bio:  Cora Gold is the Editor-in-Chief of women’s lifestyle magazine, Revivalist. She strives to live a happy and healthy life with her family by her side.
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Social media and online platforms are used by people all over the world with a wide range of different ages. As technology becomes more and more integrated into our lives, children and young people are using the internet and social media for all kinds of things, often from an early age.

Monitoring your child’s internet use is very important, but you shouldn’t necessarily stop them from setting up online accounts for social media platforms or websites for things like gaming. Instead, the best thing you can do is set up profiles with your child so that you feel confident that they’re staying safe.

In this article, we explain some of the risks that online profiles pose, and then share the best advice for avoiding these by setting up a safe profile for your child. We also cover how to talk to your child about online safety, which is an important conversation to have before you let them start using the internet.

The Risks of Online Profiles

There are plenty of positives to using the internet and it can be a fantastic place for children and young people to learn, play games, connect with friends and find communities or groups they feel a part of. However, there are a range of risks that come from setting up an online profile, and it’s important to understand these and share them with your child before you create anything online.

Some of the main risks of having online profiles include:

• Cyberbullying
• Privacy invasion
• Identity theft
• Exposure to offence or upsetting content
• Grooming
• Phishing

These risks have consequences that range from causing your child distress to putting them in serious danger from predatory adults. You should make sure that you explain these risks to them before you set up the profile, ensuring that they know the warning signs to look out for and understand why internet safety is so important. Online short safeguarding courses can be a useful resource in educating yourself on online safeguarding risks.

Top Tips for Setting Up a Safe Online Profile

Let your child know that one of the best ways to stay safe online is by setting up a safe online profile. Depending on their age, you can either ask them to follow the below advice or set up the profile with them and go through the following steps.

Choose a Secure Password

One of the most important things to teach about online safety for kids is the importance of choosing a secure password. This reduces the chance that their online account might be hacked and is a good introduction to personal security for online accounts.

Different websites or apps might have different criteria for what constitutes a ‘secure’ password, which may impact your choices. In general, it’s recommended that you get your child to use a mixture of letters, numbers, symbols and cases in their password to make it as unique as possible.

To help your child remember their password, encourage them to pick a memorable word, such as their favourite animal or a character from a book or television show. If you think they need help remembering it around, get them to write it down somewhere, disguised as something else.

Pick a Safe Username

Usernames are used on a range of online platforms to identify different profiles and often include the user’s real name. To protect your child’s identity and keep them safe, you should encourage them to choose a username that doesn’t include their name or any other personal information that could be used to identify or find them in real life.

Your child can still choose a username that feels personal by picking words that link to their favourite hobbies, colour, or animals or use a nickname. It’s also important to let them know never to share their real name with someone over the internet, unless they are sure that they’ve met them in real life already.

Limit Personal Information

On social media websites like Instagram and Facebook, setting up a profile and sharing content involves sharing more personal information in the form of photos and posts. With photos in particular, you should advise your child to avoid any images of themself that link them to a particular location or group, such as in their school uniform, in a sports club uniform, or outside of your house. These images could be used by predators to find your child in real life.

You should also supervise your child whilst they’re writing a bio for their online profile, if it’s required. Again, advise them to avoid any personal details, such as their full name, age, their school and where they live.

Use a Family Email Address

If your child is still in primary school, a good idea is to set up a family email address and get them to use this to sign up for online accounts. You can set up the preferences on this account so that emails get sent every time there’s a notification, which allows you to keep an eye on their activity without having full access to their profile.

This can also be very useful if your child creates a profile on a gaming app or website where additional purchases can be made. Using a family email, and setting up email alerts to approve a purchase, will stop your child from buying anything you don’t approve of.

Check Additional Features

Some online platforms, apps and even devices have special features that are designed to give parents some control or insight into what their child is using them for. This is particularly useful for younger children that are less aware of the risks of using the internet, such as personal data privacy and the kind of content they might come across.

When setting up a profile with your child, you might be able to select options or restrict their account in a way that means they can’t connect with strangers’ accounts, can’t spend any money, or can’t receive messages. Some apps might have a kid-friendly version or give you the option to restrict any mature content that might be shown to your child whilst they’re using it.

Set Up Your Own Profile

When your children want to start using social media, a good way to give them independence whilst keeping an eye on their activity is to set up your own profile on the same site and connect with them so that you can see what they’re posting. You won’t be able to control what they post and interact with on these platforms, but you will be able to see it and can advise them on what they’re sharing.

Install Parental Controls

Finally, it’s worth investigating the different parental controls that you can install on apps, devices and even the broadband router for your house. These controls allow you to limit what your child will be able to do on their devices or on certain websites, which is very useful when they’re younger and you want to ensure they have a positive experience whilst online.

How to Talk to Your Child About Online Safety

When you’re helping a child to set up an online profile, it’s important to talk to them about online safety and the risks that using apps and websites might have. The most important thing to remember is to be honest but avoid sharing anything that might scare your child, as you want them to be able to enjoy all the benefits of being online.

Outline the potential risks of having an online profile that we shared at the start of this article. Explain that these things are unlikely to happen, but that they are something that your child should be aware of.

Next, explain what some of the warning signs of bad behaviour on the internet are. This will help your child to spot suspicious messages, potentially upsetting content or bullying behaviour when it starts, which hopefully means they’ll be able to remove themselves from potentially harmful situations or ask for help immediately.

The most important thing to share when you’re giving your child tips for staying safe online is that they should always talk to a trusted adult if they see or receive something that makes them feel sad, uncomfortable or unsure. Let them know that they can talk to you, another family member or someone at school about anything they experience online, and that they won’t get into trouble for sharing.

Summary

Technology is developing at ever-increasing rates, and more and more children are using it at younger and younger ages. Digital literacy and the ability to connect with others online are very important when children are growing up, so the best thing you can do is equip your child with the information they need to use the internet safely, with an online profile that doesn’t put them at risk.