Category: Parenting

Recycling is something that all students learn about in school, but to make sure that these positive habits stick with them, you may need to follow up with additional lessons at home. Here are some tips on how to teach your children about the importance of recycling. Learn how to pass on these important habits to your kids.

Get Them Involved at Home

Your home is the perfect space to teach your kids to recycle because it allows them to apply what they’ve learned at school in a no-pressure environment. Consider creating kid-friendly sorting bins that are easy for your kids to understand. Teaching kids to use colors to sort different recyclables can be helpful for kids who are just learning how to read.

Sort recyclables by paper, plastic, glass, and compost if your family participates in composting. Even if your waste collection or rubbish removal service doesn’t require separation, this process helps children understand the differences between recyclable materials.

Teach Them How To Reuse Things

We all know the three Rs of recycling: reduce, reuse, and recycle (though some education systems teach as many as nine Rs, including repurposing, repairing, and more). Let’s focus on reuse for now. You might be wondering how to teach children to safely reuse the items they use every day.  Children can reuse items in the same way adults do.

For example, teach your children to avoid single-use plastic items and instead utilize a refillable water bottle, thermos, or lunch box. Carefully choosing the materials you use to pack their lunches can have a significant impact. Instead of using a disposable paper bag, choose a lunch box for them to take to school every day and stock it with reusable containers.

Don’t Forget About E-Waste

There’s no doubt about the impact of technology on students’ ability to learn while at school and at home, but this technology won’t last forever. When discussing recycling, you should also tell your children about the impact that electronics can have on the environment. After all, when we throw away electronics like old smartphones and computer parts, these pieces typically end up as e-waste in a landfill, which is particularly harmful to the environment.

It might be difficult for your child to understand that the smartphone in their hand or their school laptop could one day end up in a landfill. Do your best to explain to them that everything has a lifespan. Hang onto old electronics such as flip phones and old computer accessories to show them that even items that were considered high-tech at one point won’t last forever.

When their electronics do start to show signs of age, teach your kids responsible ways to dispose of them, such as taking them to a local e-waste collection facility or sending them to the manufacturer for repairs or refurbishing.

There are many distinct recycling guidelines and details that children don’t always learn in school. Knowing how to teach your children about the importance of recycling will help supplement the basic lesson they learn in school. These tips will help solidify the concepts and practices of recycling; hopefully, your kids will go on to teach the next generation as well.

“But, Mom! Everyone else has a cell phone!” Are you getting a bit tired of hearing this complaint? Giving your child a cell phone is a big decision that you shouldn’t have to feel pressured into making. But when it seems like your kids are the only ones without cell phones, it can be hard to stand your ground.

Common Sense Media discovered that 43% of 8-to-12-year-olds in 2021 owned their own smartphones. Yet, these phones are an obvious distraction at school and home, creating mental health issues and symptoms of addiction.

What can you do, though, when your kids continue to beg and plead over the phone issue? How can you include your children in the decision process and prepare them and yourself for the ensuing peer pressure?

1.  Let Your Child Present a Case

Your kids are much more likely to accept your decision about having a cell phone if you’re willing to give them a little respect first.

Next time they beg to have a smartphone like the rest of their friends, ask their reasoning. Ask your child to present a case for why they should be allowed to have one. You can even offer to give them a while to prepare before they talk to you about it.

They may have some valid reasons for letting them have a phone:

• You could reach each other in an emergency.
• They’d be able to contact their friends and stay in the social loop.
• It could help them learn responsibility.
• You get the ability to check in on them when they’re exploring increasing freedoms.

It may be a good idea to take some notes while they talk to you, so you can seriously consider their ideas before reaching a decision. After they finish, repeat what you wrote to make sure you understood them correctly. Then, no matter what you decide, your kids will know you took the time to hear them out and you listened carefully.

2.  Take Time to Think and Research

You took the time to actively listen to your child’s thoughts on the phone issue. Now you need to be willing to think it through from all angles and talk it over. Come to a decision as a parental unit before taking your decision to your child. No matter your decision, you’ll want to present a united front with no room for them to work on the other parent in secret.

While you talk it out, discuss your opinions and dig into some research so you can make an informed decision. What are some reasons to prevent your child from owning a phone?

• On average, kids spend between six and nine hours a day in front of screens.
• Phones are too expensive for kids to be responsible for keeping in good condition.
• Exposure to cyberbullying and social media on phones increases the risk of mental health problems in kids and teens.
• Social media and countless other apps leave kids exposed to contact with inappropriate content and predators.
• Having your smartphone in your presence reduces your cognitive abilities even if it’s turned off.

3.  Explain Your Reasoning

Once you’ve decided, you should sit down with your child to let them know your answer. If you’ve decided to let them have a cell phone, you should include your house rules for phone ownership and use. Then you can move on.

Parents who’ve decided not to allow their child to have a cell phone right now should be prepared for backlash in all directions. Luckily, your child will be likelier to listen to your reasons because you listened to theirs, but they’ll still probably do it with a fuss.

Ultimately, as a parent, you don’t have to explain your decisions to your children, but understanding the “why” usually makes it easier to swallow.

4.  Offer an Alternative

If your child is in activities or spends any amount of time at home alone, you may need a way to get a hold of them or vice versa. Also, you’re not entirely deaf to your child’s desire to interact with their friends when they’re not around.

Many companies make smart watches or “dumb” phones designed to limit what type of contact your child can have. Typically, the parent gets to set boundaries on the device.

5.  Introduce Phone-Free Activities

Reducing your own smartphone usage is an excellent example for your kids and will give you more time for all of you to spend together. Instead of a room full of zombies starting at screens, limiting phones allows you to truly enjoy each other. Get out the board games, go for a hike, plant a garden, and just soak up every moment.

6.  Hold Your Stance With Naysayers

Finally, you’ll want to discuss with your kids how to deal with criticism from peers. Talk to them about how you plan to deal with other parents’ questions and comments. At this point, you’ve had a very clear discussion about the reasons for not getting a phone, which you can share with naysayers. Your kids can either share those reasons with friends or simply blame your no-phone rule.  Eventually, their day will come at the appropriate age and they’ll finally have their own cell phone.

Be Willing to Revisit Your Decision

No decision ever has to be set in stone. Every year will bring new developmental changes for your kids, and life circumstances frequently change. Keep an open mind to changing technology and the needs of each child individually. Be upfront with your children that you mean what you say, yet you’re willing to be flexible if the need – not any amount of begging – arises.

Author bio:  Cora Gold is the Editor-in-Chief of women’s lifestyle magazine, Revivalist. She strives to live a happy and healthy life with her family by her side.
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Among the many expenses we expect to pay every month, health insurance is one of the most significant. This is especially true when you are supporting a family. Your entire family could require medical care at some point, and unless you have a huge amount of savings, it will be prohibitively expensive.

But what if you have healthy kids who live fairly secure lives. Maybe you have some savings or investments you could dip into if something happened. Do you still need to get your kids health insurance? Is it mandated by law?

Before we get into the nitty-gritty of when health insurance is mandated, here are some other types of insurance you should consider when you have a family.

What additional types of insurance should you have?

Supporting a family is expensive. This may make you feel tempted to skimp on insurance as much as possible. However, if you don’t have it when you need it, you could be in serious trouble.

One type of insurance you may not want to get is life insurance. Is life insurance worth it? If you are the primary breadwinner, the answer is certainly yet. Even if you are not earning income, the things you do on a day-to-day basis for your family would cost a lot of money to hire someone else to do. Life insurance gives your family the security they need at a time when they are particularly vulnerable.

Contents coverage in your homeowners insurance is also crucial. The things your family owns are more expensive than you think. Replacing a child’s entire wardrobe if it gets destroyed in a fire will cost you thousands of dollars.

If you have these kinds of insurance, do you really need health insurance for your kids on top of it? Could you not leave this one thing to your savings?

Do all Kids Have Access to Health Insurance?

Access of health insurance is usually not a question of availability, rather it is an issue of cost.  There is a continual effort to reduce the uninsured rate for those under 19 years old.  Government programs seek to reach lower income families, providing health insurance coverage for those below a certain income level.

Access for those on living on the threshold rate of eligibility for assisted coverage can also depend on the state that a child resides.  Direct purchase of coverage increases in states where eligibility for programs are limited.  Regardless of where you may live, you can seek a free Medicare insurance quote online to explore options for health insurance coverage.

Expansion states are those where governments are striving to expand eligibility for families who seek Medicaid and health insurance programs.  Changes in population, economic conditions, and federal and state policies will certainly affect one’s access to care.

Length of Coverage on a Parents Plan

There are many facets related to finances and planning related to coverage.  Consult a financial advisor to answer questions you may have about ensuring the wellbeing of your family.  In most states, kids that grows into adulthood can stay on their parent’s health insurance plan until they are 26 years old.  The Patient Protection and Affordable Care (ACA) mandates this.  Even if a child gets married, is enrolled in school or not, or have turned down insurance through a job, the child can stay on their parent’s plan.

Furthermore, children do not need to be living at home and it’s not required that they be a tax dependent.  Of course, anyone 18 years or older are free to seek out their own health insurance coverage.

Is health insurance for kids mandated by law?

What does the law say about whether kids need to have health insurance? It is pretty straightforward. The ACA mandates that parents need to have health insurance for their kids, or have their family on a family plan, and charges fines to parents who do not.

This may seem extreme, especially if you have the money to pay for visits to the doctor and occasional health conditions and injuries. However, the reality is that health care is far more expensive than you probably know. Even with a minor issue, the cost of care rises rapidly. Every single aspect is charged for, with a significant markup.

For kids who are diagnosed with a major life-threatening illness like leukemia, you may be on the hook for hundreds of thousands of dollars in a single year. While in most cases, treatment will ‘only’ cost about $50,000 in that first year, most people do not have that kind of money, and there is always a risk that costs will far exceed this.

Long story short, you are required by law to get health insurance for your kids, and it is something you should have regardless. In an ideal world, we would not have to pay huge amounts just to get our kids basic care, but the American healthcare system is not going to change any time soon. Even the regulations implemented through the ACA that help parents with health insurance costs may not always be around, with many lawmakers trying to repeal the act.

How do you apply for a plan?

You can apply for health insurance for your kids through the healthcare.gov website. In certain states, you will have to go through the state’s website. Make sure you have your kids’ social security numbers, your employer’s information, and your own health insurance details at hand.

This is something you should not delay any longer. If you are struggling to make ends meet, the good news is that ACA subsidizes healthcare plans.

Smart technology is becoming the norm rather than the exception, with more and more gadgets helping make our homes more efficient. This technology can help make our lives more convenient, and our kids’ educational experience more enriched.

Smart tech can add an extra measure of safety in our homes, but parents also need to be aware of potential security risks. Here’s an overview of things to consider when adopting smart tech into your home.

Teaching smart online behavior is key.

As smart devices are becoming more integrating into your child’s life for entertainment, education and daily living, it’s important to teach them about safe online behavior. Older kids who are on social media should know why privacy settings are important. They should be selective about accepting friend requests and ensure location services are disabled. They also should understand the perennial nature of posting, and how nothing on social media is ever really gone.

Ensure your pre-teens and teens understand the nature of cyberbullying. This includes understanding that photos and situations that are funny to them now, might lose their humor down the line because they can hurt people’s feelings. These posts might come back to haunt them later when they want to join a club, get an after-school job or apply to college.

They also should understand that posting about an event or activity on social media can cause resentment by those who have been deliberately left out, helping them to think critically about what they wish to share publicly.

Smart sensors in the home make sense.

A smart home can incorporate many different types of smart sensors. Some are particularly useful for keeping kids safe, especially for curious toddlers who haven’t yet learned about boundaries. Sensors installed in doorways can create greater peace of mind for parents of small explorers. For example, they can send a signal to your phone when a child exits a threshold, or if an intruder enters one.

Sensors can connect to a video camera so you can check your phone to see what’s happening. Doorbell cameras are particularly useful for when your kids get older and start inviting the neighborhood over when you’re not home.

Among the various types of sensors a home may have, motion sensors can be set up around danger areas, such as swimming pools or driveways, to provide a notification to you when a child has entered the area unsupervised. Window sensors can not only help save energy but can create an extra measure of safety by notifying you when one is left open or opens unexpectedly, ensuring there are no unexpected escapes or entries.

While every home should be equipped with smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, smart versions of these devices can also monitor your home’s air quality, checking for pollen and other particles that can be troublesome for young lungs.

Smart light bulbs can improve school performance.

Smart tech in your home can include smart light bulbs, which can help your kids get better grades in school. How? For one, some smart bulbs can adjust their blue light emissions from day to evening, helping your kids be more energized in the mornings and move more easily toward sleep at night.

Blue light, which comes to us naturally through sunlight, can interfere with the sleep hormone melatonin when we get too much blue light artificially. Better sleep equals better performance at school and on tests.

It’s important to recognize that every person’s experience with sleep issues is different.  Managing the challenges can be both frustrating and isolating.  Studies have shown that different colors of light can promote sleep by examining the effects of light and habits that may improve sleep.  Determining which are the worst colors for sleep is also key in helping parents determine which colors are best for their kids.

Smart devices can protect infant safety.

Parents of newborns already know the important benefit of baby monitors in keeping an ear on activity in the other room. The frightening worry posed by SIDS, or sudden infant death syndrome, has led developers of baby monitors to evolve the product. Some connect to your smartphone or can be sent to a mobile speaker.

Other smart items like onesies, mattresses or socks can measure and monitor your baby’s vital information like heart rate, breathing, movement, pulse oximetry and body position. You will be able to hear sounding alarms or receive notifications to your phone when there’s a problem.

Internet-connected smart toys need vetting.

Smart toys with an Internet connection—which can include robot dogs, dinosaurs, cars and other items—should be carefully vetted before purchase or forgone altogether. Many of these toys have cameras and microphones and can gather data during play as well as share your child’s location.

While these toys can provide educational opportunities, the Federal Trade Commission urges parents to carefully collect information on the toy before purchasing. That includes researching what kind of information the toy will collect about your child, learning of there are security issues or safety recalls, and knowing whether there have been security complaints.

Know the features of the toy and when it will be listening in, and whether you have the option to control the information. Smart toys, just like any other smart item in your home, pose a risk of being hacked or their data used in ways you didn’t expect.

Pros and Cons of Smart Home Technology

The impact of smart home technology is evident throughout our world today. It’s is used in homes in varying degrees.   It helps save money and time for home security and safety, while intriducing new security challenges.

Some of the most common benefits that smart home technology are:

Customized Preferences & Settings

No matter which device you have, smart products can adjust to match any specific user’s customized preferences or needs.

Health & Wellness Tracking

Checking in on your health provides reassurance regarding safe and independent living. Adding smart technologies like a Wellcam facilitates real-time, two-way audio and video communication.

Energy & Utilities Management

Lighting, heating, and cooling can save on energy costs. Consider smart outlets to manage auto shut-off for electronic devices. Smart LED bulbs enable users to turn lights on and off at certain times for security and convenience.

Easy & Interconnectivity

Implementing smart home products is also convenient for monitoring many home-bound systems. Such interconnectivity enables users to manage and monitor thermostats remotely, review surveillance camera footage, and more, all without leaving their workplace—or even their kitchen table.

As much of a great benefit and commodity is to have these features at home, this can have crucial drawbacks such as:

High cost and skill requirements

The utility of smart devices comes at a steep price — compare a conventional and a smart fridge. A regular fridge costs between $1,000 and $2,000, while a smart model can have a price tag between $2,000 and $4,000.

Cybersecurity risks

Remember that these electronics collect large volumes of data and information, some of which are personal and sensitive. For example, your phone contains passwords, and your car’s global positioning system monitors your location.

To prevent hacking into your smart devices, ensure they’re equipped with anti-tampering and endpoint protection solutions. Implementing encryption protocols is recommended for protection, so hackers won’t be able to infiltrate a smart device or intercept its data.

The Bottom line

Smart home technology has evolved throughout the years; this has been a rapid and beneficial solution for everything surrounding us. From automating your kitchen and common areas to installing sprinkler systems and even viewing guests arriving at your front door has been quite convenient when having a smartphone.

Smart technology has great potential to improve safety and enhance kids’ lives when approached carefully and sensibly. Talking with your children and teaching them about the proper use of smart technology will help ensure the best experience for everyone.

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