Category: Social Media Safety

Even though TikTok has already come under scrutiny for exposing unsuspecting underage users to unsuitable content, and creating conditions that can lead to online bullying, it remains one the key contributors to tody’s mental health crisis.

While the app has tightened up security and increased restrictions and controls for young TikTok user accounts, there remain clever and subversive workarounds.

These issues can grant your children access to inappropriate content.  On TikTok’s “For You Page”, for instance, no matter what the user ‘feeds’ the algorithm, there still might be scenes of gore, harmful pranks, or other antisocial behaviors. There are also TikTok privacy issues explored later in this article, which are not new.

Let’s walk you through everything you need to know about the “For You Page” algorithms. We will provide guidance that will help you take proactive steps to navigate safe uses of TikTok together with your child, leading the way towards having an open conversation about online safety and privacy concerns.

How For You Page Algorithms Work

One of the reasons TikTok’s algorithmic system of selecting content for users to view is so effective is that its ultimate purpose is to attract more daily users to the platform.

This means that the app is designed in such a way as to keep viewers coming back for more, spending increasing amounts of time each visit and engaging with the app ever more frequently. Some point towards this as a system that promotes addiction and the app has been likened to a number of highly addictive substances for this reason.

Using machine learning processes, the algorithms determine users’ tastes and preferences to highly specified degrees. After just a few hours of engaging with the app, sophisticated algorithms will have analyzed the user’s engagement to determine their taste in music, their mood, their likelihood to take drugs, and even their sexuality.

This information is then fed back into the app, providing highly personalized recommendations on the “For you” page, designed to entice the viewer to keep engaging with more content.

This can become an endless cycle, as the more videos a TikTok user watches, the more accurately the TikTok algorithm can predict which videos will be most likely to keep them engaged.

This cycle can target sensitive and impressionable users, feeding them potentially harmful content and making them further addicted to the app itself.

Fake Content Can Fool Unsuspecting TikTok Users

But all of that is just the tip of the iceberg. The For You page also tends to be full of ads prompting users to download a game or an app.

While every parent can sniff out manipulation tactics such as fake ads like this, kids won’t think and will gladly click on the link to get their next dose of excitement.

This can lead to data theft, account infiltration, and even a cyber attack on your whole home network. So if you’re using your work laptop to connect to your WiFi, best believe hackers will be after those financial reports, too.

The Most Common Risks of TikTok FYP Content

While TikTok is intended to be safe for children over the age of 13 only, in reality, this is not the case. A recent report has revealed that as many as 1.4 million children younger than age 13 have bypassed in-app security measures and been able to access TikTok.

This leaves young users vulnerable to a host of possible risks associated with TikTok FYP content. Let’s take a look at a few of the most worrying.

Unsecured Data Collection

We’ve all read about the allegations that the Chinese government has been collecting data via TikTok, and while the evidence remains inconclusive, there are lingering doubts about national security.

Over half of all 50 states in the United States have banned access to TikTok on government-issued devices as of April 2023. And while federal employees can still access the app on their personal devices, this level of concern does raise some alarms when it comes to protecting the sensitive data your kids are unwittingly sharing, just by watching videos.

As we’ve mentioned above, each video your child watches reveals information not just about what kinds of videos your child likes, but about who they are. This sensitive data has a cumulative effect. The more information the algorithm gathers, the clearer a picture it has of who your child is and what makes them tick.

That information, put into the wrong hands, can be highly dangerous, making your child vulnerable to phishing attacks and potentially compromising their overall cybersecurity.

Purposefully Pushing Harmful Content

For young TikTok users, one of the greatest dangers presented by TikTok FYP content is that deep personal vulnerabilities can be exploited – with extremely harmful results.

Teenagers and preteens who search for things like “losing weight” or “depression” will be entered into an algorithmic equation that floods their personalized page with potentially harmful content.

This content can lead to serious damage; twisting and distorting young TikTok users’ views of what their body should look like, how they should be expected to feel and act, and how they should view people in a gendered context.

Content that promotes misogyny, eating disorders, and even self-harm can have a severe impact on impressionable viewers. Since the algorithm is designed to anticipate users’ interests and desires, it can prey on common insecurities and fears, keeping young viewers hooked and engaged in dangerous content.

Fake Celebrity Accounts

Another thing parents should be wary of is content requiring their kids to engage with the poster (usually a minor TikTok celebrity).

Aside from the usual risks of your children communicating with older strangers, many of these profiles are often a product of synthetic identity fraud—a growing danger involving criminals creating carbon copies of celebrity profiles to communicate with younger fans and steal their information or even extort them.

Young users drawn in by the exciting allure of their favorite influencers will not be wary of a convincing fake and can easily be tricked into sharing sensitive information. If your child provides their home address or school schedule, this could even lead to kidnapping or physical harm.

How to Keep Your Kids Safe on TikTok

Let’s face it, restricting your child’s access to one of the most highly addictive social media apps out there may not be a walk in the park. However, it’s important that you work together with your child to find a realistic solution.

Having a frank, open, and honest conversation with your kids about the potential dangers that TikTok FYP content presents can help illuminate where you are coming from, and can make them feel more ready to engage in a cooperative negotiation.

In a wider sense, you could also try bringing up the topic of Tiktok at the next school meeting – these are collective issues facing society, so including social media safety in curricula would be a great step toward finding solutions.

Explore the options available to you when it comes to in-app parental controls, and also try safeguarding your home internet network (this is a good idea in any case). Navigating the risks together with your child can help pave the way for a safer, more communicative mode of engaging with social media- and with each other.

Final Thoughts

With its keen insights into the desires and fears of young users’ inner worlds, TikTok’s For You page represents a widespread threat.

Personalized promoted content can exploit vulnerabilities and introduce your children to harmful content. Phishing, fake accounts, and spam ads can expose your internet network and devices to malware or spyware, compromising your overall cybersecurity. And unsuspecting young TikTok users may fall prey to the schemes of bad actors pretending to be someone they are not.

In order to keep your child safe on TikTok, engage with them directly. Let them know that your concerns are legitimate by citing real-world examples, without scaring them too much, of course.

Use parental controls and restrictions, and try to understand where your child is coming from. After all, they are attached to an app that is, according to some analysts, designed to keep users addicted and ready for more.

About the Author:
Ryan Harris is a copywriter focused on eLearning and the digital transitions going on in the education realm. Before turning to writing full time, Ryan worked for five years as a teacher in Tulsa and then spent six years overseeing product development at many successful Edtech companies, including 2U, EPAM, and NovoEd.

Thanks to social media, sharing life with others is just a click away. Yet, it’s vital to pause and reflect, especially when it involves pictures of your children. Yes, those adorable baby smiles or innocent fun moments are tempting to share, but have you considered the implications?

Usually, our focus is on teaching kids the basics of social media safety.  But it’s easy to forget that this powerful tool is ours to handle responsibly as well.  This guide will walk you through essential considerations before posting your little one’s pictures on social media.  Let’s delve into multiple aspects that will help you make informed decisions.

10 Things to Consider Before Sharing Pictures of Your Child

Your children are their own people, and they deserve to have a say over whether or not pictures of themselves can be posted on social media. After all, everything on the internet is permanent.

1. Sharing Could Have Long-Term Effects on Your Children

Think carefully about potential future repercussions before sharing your child’s images online. You never know how shared content might evolve in decades to come. In the digital era, these pictures will remain online indefinitely, potentially impacting their personal and professional life.

2. Blur the Background to Hide Other People’s Kids

A lot of parents may not know this, but it’s actually legal to share pictures of other people’s children online without their parents or child’s consent. To be safe, you should use background blurring techniques to ensure that only your own children are visible in your photograph.

3. Never Share Anything That Could be Considered Embarrassing

Keep in mind that what might appear cute to you now could be embarrassing for your child in the future. Simple images like bath time or tantrum moments can cause unease years later. By being considerate and cautious, you can help protect your child’s online persona.

4. Consider How Sharing Photos Could Warp Their View of Online Safety

Regularly sharing photos of your child online could impact their understanding of privacy and online safety. It may indicate to them that it’s normal to disclose personal information. Teach them prudent sharing habits by setting a good example with your own social media behavior.

5. Don’t Share any Personal Information or Suggestive Photos

Avoid sharing any pictures that disclose personal information or feature your child unclothed, even if partially. Besides infringing on their privacy, such images can easily fall into the wrong hands or be used maliciously. The internet is a useful tool, but it’s crucial to tread cautiously for your child’s safety.

6. Avoid Revealing Locations and Typical Routines

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Be cautious when it comes to revealing locations and habitual routines in pictures. Geotagged photos or posts detailing your child’s school or park can serve as a roadmap to their daily life. Minimize risk by keeping such details offline, thereby strengthening your family’s safety.

7. Children May Not Know How to or Can’t Properly Give Consent

Unless you appropriately teach your children how permanent the internet is, it’s difficult or impossible for children to give consent. This is especially true if they’re young. And if you post photos of your child online without their consent, it could cause them to develop trust issues.

8. Beware of the Potential Backlash from Other Parents

There are plenty of parents who don’t like the idea of other people sharing their own children online, primarily for the reasons stated in this article. If you’re going to post pictures of your kids on social media, just be prepared for a potential backlash from other parents or groups.

9. Up Your Privacy Settings on Social Media

Leverage privacy settings offered by social media platforms to control who sees your posts. By reviewing and adjusting these settings, you can limit content visibility to trusted, selected individuals. This isn’t foolproof, but it creates an additional layer of safety for your images.

10. Consider Using More Private Social Networks

Instead of widely used platforms, consider sharing your child’s milestones on smaller, more private networks. There are family-friendly apps that prioritize privacy and offer better control over who sees the content. Selecting the right platform is a crucial step toward safer sharing.

Awareness Needed When Sharing Photos Online (Explainer Video):

In Conclusion…

The joy of sharing your child’s precious moments online comes with its own set of responsibilities. It’s essential to navigate this digital landscape cautiously for your little one’s safety. Remember, you are the first line of defense in protecting their digital footprint.

As the world continues to evolve into a more digital society, the idea of what it means to be a responsible digital citizen has come to the forefront. Many people agree that some of the same laws and societal norms that we use to regulate how we interact with one another in the material world should somehow be shaped to be applied to the digital landscape.

It is important to have a standard code of conduct for how we behave when we are online to ensure the safety of everyone participating in the digital world, whether it be for education, work, or social purposes.

But what does it mean to be a digital citizen, and when exactly should we introduce and teach its ideals?

What would a middle school curriculum look like that taught digital citizenship, cyber security, and social media safety?

Let’s take a closer look at what digital citizenship means as well as the many ways educators have been tackling this topic to better prepare students for online life.

What is Digital Citizenship?

Digital citizenship is the ability of individuals to recognize the rights, responsibilities, and opportunities of living in a digital world, while at the same time, acknowledging that the words they say, and the actions they take online, are recorded into a permanent record that will follow them for the rest of their lives. It is because of this permanence that children and adolescents need to be taught what it means to be a responsible digital citizen from an early age.

The Foundations of Good Digital Citizenship

In short, being a good digital citizen requires individuals to conduct themselves in the digital space in a way that is safe, legal, and ethical, while at the same time, operating within a basic level of morality. Although morality is somewhat subjective, there are still basic norms that people follow in the material world that should apply to the digital world.

The Consequences of Poor Digital Citizenship

Far too many times when we see instances of cyberbullying or online harassment, the perpetrator feels that because they are hiding behind a screen, they are free to act and say things that they may not do or say when in the real world and face-to-face with the victim. A large part of being a good digital citizen is understanding that there really is no difference between your online persona and who you are in the material world.

The Role of Parents and Educators in Promoting Digital Citizenship

So, although parents and educators can take steps to educate our youth and help them to become responsible digital citizens, what about other people? What about bad actors who may not adhere to responsible digital citizenship, and instead, use the digital world to victimize people?

By far, the largest space that our youth occupy in the digital world is social media. As an educator or parent, it is critical to understand that social media safety is a fundamental part of teaching digital citizenship. Many of the best private schools have recognized this and are leading the way by incorporating comprehensive digital citizenship programs into their curricula.

Adolescents and teenagers who use social media on a regular basis are at a higher risk of online threats such as cyberbullying, exposure to inappropriate content, and online predation. Not only that, but most younger internet users may also lack basic cybersecurity knowledge which can leave them more vulnerable to phishing, ransomware, and other more general cyber threats.

Integrating Digital Citizenship into Education

Fortunately, more school districts across the country are starting to add digital citizenship curriculum in middle school classrooms across the country. Middle school seems to be the ideal time in an adolescent’s life to prepare them for the digital landscape as this is the time in their life when internet use begins to increase greatly for everything from online classes and homework support to messaging peers and social media use.

So, now that educators have had some practice and experience implementing these new types of digital citizen curriculum into the classroom, what seems to be working and what are the most critical components to include?

Let’s take a closer look at what educators are finding to be some of the most critical components of a well-rounded digital citizenship curriculum.

Key Components of a Digital Citizenship Curriculum

In addition to some basic cybersecurity education, because teenagers spend a good amount of their time in the digital world using social media platforms, developing a well-rounded digital citizenship curriculum requires a strong focus on the risks associated with social media use to ensure social media safety for kids.

Also, keep in mind that when broaching the topics of cybersecurity and digital citizenship with younger learners, it is important to make sure you are finding and using engaging methods to teach these topics. There are a number of incredible resources available online to help educators and parents find materials to teach about cybersecurity and social media safety.

Here are some of the most critical components that should be included in a well-rounded digital citizenship curriculum.

Privacy and Security

Privacy and security are by far the most important topics to cover when discussing cybersecurity basics. The first thing that students should know is how to set their social media accounts private and the importance of disabling location sharing and the risks of geo-tagging photos. Online predators and scammers can use location data to stalk or learn more about the people they are targeting.

Another important aspect of privacy to discuss with students is the importance of not oversharing personal information on social media or to unsolicited messages. Information like addresses, legal names, online passwords, birthdays, social security numbers, and more, if posted online or sent in a message, can be used for a number of malicious purposes including identity theft.

When it comes to security, a basic overview of cybersecurity fundamentals is essential. Topics like how to avoid clicking on suspicious links or downloading harmful software, how to install and use antivirus programs, and what to do in the event of a cyber attack, are good places to start. The depth and technicality of the subjects you cover will depend on the age group, however, everyone should have a solid foundation of the basics of being safe online.

Identity Theft

Identity theft is a serious problem that many teens do not think about because they do not yet participate in the credit economy. However, students should have a basic understanding of how cybercriminals can use personal information that is shared online to open accounts in their name and destroy their credit or financial life before it even begins. Additionally, the advantage of a digital signature over an e-signature for signing important legal and financial documents is another basic understanding to have to help prevent identity theft and other types of fraud.

Relationships and Communication

Another focus of a digital citizenship curriculum should be relationships and communication. How we communicate online with one another is important to developing and maintaining relationships through digital communication. Assuring tone, inflection, and meaning are not misconstrued through email, texts, and other forms of digital communication will be an ongoing skill that students will work on and develop throughout their education and beyond.

Cyberbullying and Digital drama

It’s well known that Cyberbullying has become a serious problem that many schools are dealing with on a regular basis. It’s not only an abundant issue with more than 37% of young people between the ages of 12 and 17 reporting being bullied online, but the consequences can be destructive.

Young people who experience cyberbullying are at a much higher risk of self-harm and suicidal behaviors than those who don’t. Teaching students how to recognize cyberbullying and what to do if they experience or observe it is a fundamental part of an impactful digital citizenship curriculum in combination with strict zero-tolerance policies.

Digital Footprints and Reputation

Another key aspect of digital citizenship is understanding that everything posted online is permanent. Even if you delete messages or posts, there is still a digital record of all communications. Also, your digital footprint is directly correlated with your reputation. Anything you post online about yourself and what you are doing or anything you post about others including comments, pictures, and other forms of content, can resurface years later and harm your reputation.

All students should understand that their digital footprint can have consequences down the road that they could never have imagined, especially if they participate in cyberbullying and other forms of online harassment.

Creative Credit, Copyright, and Plagiarism

Creative credit, copyright, and plagiarism are topics that have come into focus in recent years, especially with the development of AI programs like ChatGPT. Students should understand the basics of why it is important to give creative credit to originators, what copyright is and how it works, as well as how plagiarism is fundamentally wrong, even as society is introducing the use of AI into more arenas.

Conclusion

As more and more young people are getting online at earlier ages, many would argue that from as early as kindergarten, we should at least be introduced to some ideas of digital citizenship. Then, once students start reaching the age of middle school and they are preparing to be more active online, schools should introduce curricula to help students navigate the digital world in a way that is safe and constructive.

About the Author:
Ryan Harris is a copywriter focused on eLearning and the digital transitions going on in the education realm. Before turning to writing full time, Ryan worked for five years as a teacher in Tulsa and then spent six years overseeing product development at many successful Edtech companies, including 2U, EPAM, and NovoEd.

Social media has become an integral part of our lives and it’s no surprise that children are exposed, too. Major platforms like Facebook and Instagram capture children’s attention, inundating them with content and overstimulating sights and sounds. With that, it shapes their social interaction and daily routine.

The Impact of Toxic Stress on Brain Development

Stress is a natural response to challenging situations. When experienced chronically, it can harm children’s brain development. The developing brain is susceptible to stress and prolonged exposure to various stressors can disrupt normal functioning and growth.

Chronic stress negatively affects cognitive abilities and emotional well-being in children. Toxic stress has a lasting impact on brain development and function. The possible changes to a child’s brain might lead to anxiety, addiction and depression.

Another study published in the Journal of Neurodevelopmental Disorders found that early life stress can lead to changes in the structure of the amygdala, prefrontal cortex, hippocampus and hypothalamus. These changes also make someone engage in risky behaviors and addiction.

The Connection Between Social Media And Children’s Brain Development

Social media exposes children to vast amounts of information, social interactions and stimuli that can shape their cognitive and emotional development. Excessive screen time and social media usage can negatively impact children’s mental and emotional development.

The constant exposure to screens and digital work may contribute to attention difficulties, reduced focus and impaired cognitive abilities. Moreover, social media’s curated and filtered nature can distort children’s perception of reality and affect their self-esteem and emotional well-being.

A study published in JAMA Pediatrics found a significant association between increased screen time and lower scores on developmental screen tests in toddlers. The results have indicated that children aged 24 to 36 months with higher screen time levels exhibited lower performance on a screening measure that evaluates their achievement of developmental milestones at 36 and 60 months.

Emotional and Social Effects of Social Media on Children

Social media can significantly influence children’s self-esteem, body image and social interactions. The constant exposure to carefully curated posts and images on social media platforms can create unrealistic standards of beauty and success, leading to negative self-comparison and diminished self-esteem. Moreover, the pressure to fit in and gain social validation online can affect the children’s sense of identity and belonging.

There are potential risks of social media. The dangers include addiction, cyber, exposure to harmful content, privacy concerns, mental health problems, sleep problems, eating disorders, reduced academic performance and reduced social interaction.

Cyberbullying and online peer pressure are prevalent. Social media allows people to be anonymous, which can encourage hurtful behaviors that lead to cyberbullying. The fear of missing out and the desire to conform to social norms online also contribute to peer pressure, where children may feel compelled to engage in behaviors they may not be comfortable with in order to fit in.

Many U.S. teens have experienced cyberbullying or witnessed others being bullied online. Common forms include mean or threatening messages, spreading rumors and being excluded from online groups. These findings emphasize the need to address social media’s emotional and social consequences.

Strategies for Promoting Healthy Social Media Use

Check out these steps for encouraging healthier and better social media usage among children:

• Set limits: Establish clear boundaries regarding how much time children can spend on social media. Be more proactive in determining which sites are good for them and which aren’t.
• Take breaks: Teach your children to be self-aware about their emotions. If they’re already feeling anxious or frustrated, it’s better to take a step away from using the gadget and walk around for a bit. Spending time in nature is shown to help relieve stress, so be sure to encourage outdoor activity.
• Be a role model: Make sure you show your kids healthy social media habits by being intentional about how you use them. Maybe that means not ranting on social media or not comparing yourself with what you see. It also means spending just the right amount of time.

Social Media Is Already Here

Social media offers numerous benefits, but it can also be harmful — especially if children are left unguided. Chronic stress, exacerbated by excessive social media use, can lead to cognitive difficulties and emotional challenges. It’s essential to have good strategies in place and find the perfect balance in using these tools.

Author bio:  Cora Gold is the Editor-in-Chief of women’s lifestyle magazine, Revivalist. She strives to live a happy and healthy life with her family by her side.
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